No, the Little Guy hasn’t been out yet, but with my mother in law in town helping out I’ve had both the excuse to hit a destination other than the grocery store or library storytime and also get in some blogging. So, it feels like we’re finally starting to rejoin the outside world after a much needed new family hibernation. OK, so a little over two weeks into the life of the young lad… here’s what’s been happening.
The Little Guy sleeps pretty well. Our main issue has been getting Big Sister to sleep. She has gone to sleep every night of her 21 months with us, but with the arrival of each night it seems she can’t bear the thought of relaxing and assuming a prone position. The first few nights after the Little Guy joined us we ended up with me driving her around in the car for an for hour to induce sleepyness, but with gas prices what they are…
That said, I highly recommend to all other dads the following: when your Baby 2.0 arrives, take at least a few weeks off. Even if you can’t stay out forever, you’ll need a while for the older one to get acclimated to the new family dynamics. Big Sister loves and kisses the Little Guy to pieces, but she’s definitely having a rough time with having mama less than 100% totally available to her at all times. You’d think I’d be good enough, but I am lacking in certain departments.
So yeah, the Little Guy sleeps and eats and poops pretty well – we would be sleeping wonderfully if not for Big Sister’s nightly two hour active time. This is usually bookended by poop or burp activity from the Little Guy which creates a huge hole in our overnight. I basically discount the idea of sleep between 1 AM and 5 AM, so the more sleep we get between 9 PM and 1 AM (if Big Sis is asleep by then) the better for everybody.
My main lifeline to the outside world has been Morning Edition on NPR while making breakfast with the Big Sister. Occasionally I get some online time during her nap but such is usually brief. I’ve tapped into Bloglines a few times but mostly to catch up on the newest lies from the McCain camp and to check if anyone in the outside world cares yet. I did get to watch the Bears beat up on Indy to open the American Football season, which basically proved that if we had started Kyle Orton, Bryan Urlacher would have his Super Bowl ring by now.
I wear my Cubs hat everywhere here in Montpelier, as much for loyalty as to stand out in the sea of Red Sox Nation navy. I’m nervous as always about what could happen but at least the folks here are pretty understanding – they went through basically the same thing until ‘04. One local caught me off-guard with his comment that he understood Cubbie suffering since he was a New York Jets fan, adding “we haven’t won in my lifetime.” Dude, we never won in my great-grandmother’s lifetime. Hopefully Little Guy and Big Sister are just coming to this life at the dawn of a new Cub century – hey, any team can have a bad hundred years. But, Big Z’s big return last night has us all hopeful again.
I’ll catch up on the last few weeks of events from libraryland in the coming days when things calm down and our new routines become easier on all of us. And I know I owe you all new photos as well.